Getting ready to visit my sister in the hospital
It’s almost 12 30 as I write this. This past Friday I was notified that my sister was in critical but stable condition, having had am allergic reaction to something.. It’s made for a bit of a difficult weekend.
My sister suffers from severe mental retardation and autism. She lives in a home in somewhat western-ish Mass. When my mom died last december.. it sorta fell on me to.. I’m not sure what.. but to make sure things were.. not so bad. But also I’ve been in the position of being in charge of taking care of my father who has dementia… Between this kind of thing and like.. sorta normal challenges of life of which my mom largely shielded me from… I’m greeted with a set of challenges I’m generally not feeling totally up to… That I must find a way to rise to… And it surely doesn’t help that career wise I tend to be the starving artist type.
So now I’m waking up dad and getting ready to leave to go meet with my Aunt Jackie to visit my Sister in the hospital. The good news is my sisters condition has stabilized.. and she’s being moved out of the ICU.
September 28th, 2008 at 11:29 pm
Wonderful to hear about your sister doing better, my heart has always gone out to you and the challenges life has thrown at you. But challenges have a way of making us stronger and sometimes gives us great inspiration in writing, music and art.